Ok So let's try this....

It's been awhile since ive written something here so lets start with a story.

Today one of my work colleagues asked me out, i obliged only because he's been bugging me for months to go somewhere with him. So he's bright idea was to take me to the movies for lunch, not bad there's a few things i wouldnt mind seeing...but no rather than taking hints at my suggestions, he decides he wants to take me to this 50 shades bullshit i told him i didnt want to see it because lets be honest since the books were shit how is the movie going to make it better.

But then he says "well i already brought the tickets so....", (so in short i was movie raped?! maybe?)

Then one of my pet peeves is people talking through movies, granted i didnt want to watch it but considering i was already there i might as well listen to the bullshit. He kept saying at every sex scene "man i wish i had a chick like that....that submissive stuff looks fun", granted Dakota Johnson has an amazing body and that made the movie somewhat bearable, (ive never been one to shy away from sexiness on screen), but this is the problem i have, having a BDSM background myself, what they're doing isn't true BDSM so the fact that when people watch this movie they get the false idea of what BDSM is about annoys the shit out of me.

So now that i've bored you with a story, i have one final question. I am not the most gentle person so i need a nice way to let the guy down, because even though he fucked up i still have to work with him

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someaveragechap 2015-02-12 01:34:54

How about: you're a decent bloke, but I'm afraid I don't feel any chemistry between us. If you have any respect for me as a human, you'll let this go, and we can continue to work together as co-workers.

I dunno, that be a little too direct. It's hard to tell when to be subtle like a scapel and when to drop the sledgehammer.

FoAngel 2015-02-12 01:34:54

Thats actually a pretty good response!, i think i'll use it <3

Subtly is something i lack so i always need the advice of others for it :D

saucybird 2015-02-12 02:36:55

Imma back someaveragechap on this, you do have to make it clear that you'd still have to be able to cooperate in y'alls work environment efficiently

FoAngel 2015-02-12 02:36:55

thanks :), another +1 for someaveragechap it seems

killer32 2015-02-14 01:57:35

So what you do is go on another date, it could be anything. Then after the date is finished you wake with him for a bit and talk about random bullshit. Finally, after saying goodbye, he will turn around and walk his own direction. That's when you shoot him in the head, trust me he won't feel a thing.

FoAngel 2015-02-14 01:57:35

I laughed at that more than i should of XD

someaveragechap 2015-02-18 02:06:12

Since you're still around, he's not a crazy stalker going through your garbage right?

FoAngel 2015-02-18 02:06:12

lol not that i know of but ill be sure to keep an eye out for him. XD

EKublai 2015-03-02 17:47:42

You say, "Listen, you seem like a cool guy, but I'm just not feeling it between us... Going forward, we're just going to have to be co-workers and that's it. Keep it professional, ya'know?"

And then he'll definitely say, "But then when will my chance for love begin?"

And then you'll choke on your flat white and sputter, "Eschcuse me? What did you say?"

He will repeat, "When will my chance for love begin?"

And you'll laugh right at his face because FUCK YOU DON'T GET A SECOND LIFE AFTER THAT!

FoAngel 2015-03-02 17:47:42

That's amazingly brilliant XD

RiverofBloodyTears2 2015-03-14 02:06:22

BRING GHANDI BACK

BrentHeMan 2015-03-18 19:45:03

That sounds like a pretty awful first date! What did you end up doing then?

FoAngel 2015-03-18 19:45:03

I went with someaveragechap's advice told him as much as I appreciated the date. I just think dating as coworkers wouldn't work. He got a little cranky at first and didn't talk to me for a week. But I think we're ok now...Maybe I've no idea....but I've locked my doors at night just incase

BrentHeMan 2015-03-18 20:00:39

haha what kind of people do you work with!?

FoAngel 2015-03-18 20:00:39

I work with people who at one stage used to be university students so they still have that "I can get anyone I want" mentality XD

BrentHeMan 2015-03-18 20:28:36

Ahhh....that's kind of funny relative to how shitty his first date plans were. Movie raped is right.

I like how he had already bought the tickets, as if you wanting to see 50 Shades was a forgone conclusion. Then the hints about that being the type of "chick" he wants. This guy is smooth as hell.

But then, didn't you read the entire Twilight series? Maybe he subconsciously picked up on your self-hate and went with it. :P

FoAngel 2015-03-18 20:28:36

Jesus I didn't even think of that. Apparently I need to work on the type of men i attract if that's the case XD

BrentHeMan 2015-03-18 21:13:29

Well I don't know. If you're even a half way decent looking woman you'll attract men. That's just how it is I think.

But you ended things swiftly. I think the problem is when you date people like this for years...