Imma back someaveragechap on this, you do have to make it clear that you'd still have to be able to cooperate in y'alls work environment efficiently
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Imma back someaveragechap on this, you do have to make it clear that you'd still have to be able to cooperate in y'alls work environment efficiently
thanks :), another +1 for someaveragechap it seems
So what you do is go on another date, it could be anything. Then after the date is finished you wake with him for a bit and talk about random bullshit. Finally, after saying goodbye, he will turn around and walk his own direction. That's when you shoot him in the head, trust me he won't feel a thing.
I laughed at that more than i should of XD
Since you're still around, he's not a crazy stalker going through your garbage right?
lol not that i know of but ill be sure to keep an eye out for him. XD
You say, "Listen, you seem like a cool guy, but I'm just not feeling it between us... Going forward, we're just going to have to be co-workers and that's it. Keep it professional, ya'know?"
And then he'll definitely say, "But then when will my chance for love begin?"
And then you'll choke on your flat white and sputter, "Eschcuse me? What did you say?"
He will repeat, "When will my chance for love begin?"
And you'll laugh right at his face because FUCK YOU DON'T GET A SECOND LIFE AFTER THAT!
That's amazingly brilliant XD
BRING GHANDI BACK
That sounds like a pretty awful first date! What did you end up doing then?
I went with someaveragechap's advice told him as much as I appreciated the date. I just think dating as coworkers wouldn't work. He got a little cranky at first and didn't talk to me for a week. But I think we're ok now...Maybe I've no idea....but I've locked my doors at night just incase
haha what kind of people do you work with!?
I work with people who at one stage used to be university students so they still have that "I can get anyone I want" mentality XD
Ahhh....that's kind of funny relative to how shitty his first date plans were. Movie raped is right.
I like how he had already bought the tickets, as if you wanting to see 50 Shades was a forgone conclusion. Then the hints about that being the type of "chick" he wants. This guy is smooth as hell.
But then, didn't you read the entire Twilight series? Maybe he subconsciously picked up on your self-hate and went with it. :P
Jesus I didn't even think of that. Apparently I need to work on the type of men i attract if that's the case XD
Well I don't know. If you're even a half way decent looking woman you'll attract men. That's just how it is I think.
But you ended things swiftly. I think the problem is when you date people like this for years...
someaveragechap
How about: you're a decent bloke, but I'm afraid I don't feel any chemistry between us. If you have any respect for me as a human, you'll let this go, and we can continue to work together as co-workers.
I dunno, that be a little too direct. It's hard to tell when to be subtle like a scapel and when to drop the sledgehammer.
FoAngel
Thats actually a pretty good response!, i think i'll use it <3
Subtly is something i lack so i always need the advice of others for it :D